There is a secret formula for the best sex of your life, but you won't find the recipe in the pages of a checkout-line magazine.Popular relationship expert Dr. Gary Smalley, best-selling author of The Language of Love and The Blessing, finally tackles the topic that's on everybody's mind: sex. With his pastor and good friend, Ted Cunningham, Smalley nudges past our hang-ups and sacred cows to answer the question, How can I have the best sex of my life? The answer? Great sex is made with the same ingredients as a strong and intimate marriage! When we begin with an honest look at the differences between men and women, we can find ways to bridge the gap and create the honor, intimacy, and security that great sex-and a great marriage-needs to flourish. In The Language of Sex, Gary and Ted share the secrets to raising the temperature outside the bedroom-and in.